Post by o***@gmail.comThe groom is the male-line descendant of a younger son of a baronet (the heir to the baronetcy read a reading at the service); so he is almost definitely armigerous.
I take your point. But there is heraldry in theory and heraldry in practice. As eldest son, I inherited my father's arms, but I never use them in public. My house is not the kind to display a banner, and I no longer wear my father's signet ring now that wax seals have disappeared. Nor do my children bother. For them heraldry is pretty much irrelevant nowadays. In practice, they have no coat of arms. I see their point. The original purpose of heraldry, as personal identification on seals and over armour, petered out in the fifteenth century and heraldry became simply a status symbol. That's why my research into mediaeval heraldry only goes as far as 1400 or shortly after.
Mr and Mrs Brooksbank have no title and may feel that heraldry too is not important. That seems a perfectly rational approach. The royal family and the aristocracy may still have uses for their arms. But others can only fabricate excuses to use theirs. And when they do, nobody recognises them, so the point of the heraldry is lost.
Peter Howarth